I occasionally get the good fortune to interact with the teenagers in my life. Mostly they’re relatives or my friends’ kids. I’m endlessly curious about their experiences. What is it like to be a teenager in the age of social media? And now AI? ChatGPT?
I sometimes think I only made it through my tween and teenage years because there wasn’t a lot of documenting going on. For some of my classmates, the only picture I might have of them is in a year book. Even then, it’s probably a small, grainy photo. I can’t even imagine what it must be like to be photographed, tagged, and posted for everyone to see. It seems like there’s a lot of pressure for something that’s impossible to avoid. Even for teenagers who might not want to partake in social media, there’s nothing they can do to stop others from taking their photos and posting them.
Aside from the worry some of these kids must feel about ending up on somebody’s social media feed, it detracts from social experiences. I constantly see kids walking around with headphones in, even while they’re conversing with others! Or they’re heads down on their phones, even when they’re walking together in a group. When I was growing up, we didn’t have any of these things. We had to learn to deal with our awkwardness, build resilience, and explore. Then again, we also had the freedom to do these things without being photographed and put on display for everybody to see. We could collectively forget and reinvent.
The pandemic likely impacted many of these kids. While the pandemic started almost 6 years ago, it lasted for years. For some of these teens, the isolation and lockdowns hit during formative social years. Lots of school districts were remote, or hybrid, during the early part. It’s hard to even understand or quantify the effect. These kids isolated before they even had a chance to develop social skills. Will these teens be more starved for human contact? Or will they prefer solitude and more technology-driven interactions?
With all this talk, and some action, of people returning to the office 5-days/week, I also think about the newer workforce. No doubt many of them were teenagers when the pandemic hit. How will they adjust to so much face-time in the office? Working onsite includes more than just being there physically.
